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June 26 2017

If you’re going to threaten me. Have the balls to threaten me to my face.

cornerof5thandvermouth:

thelilnan:

FUCK lmao someone in my extended friend group posted a huge callout post for me on Facebook without naming names but essentially called me selfish and irresponsible for setting up GoFundMes for my New York Trip last year and my surgery this year???

Let’s talk about this shit, Head Ass. I know you’re talking about me.

do you need me to fuck them up because this is bullshit

If you feeling froggy, honey.

June 23 2017

demonicsymphony:

thelilnan:

FUCK lmao someone in my extended friend group posted a huge callout post for me on Facebook without naming names but essentially called me selfish and irresponsible for setting up GoFundMes for my New York Trip last year and my surgery this year???

Let’s talk about this shit, Head Ass. I know you’re talking about me.

So actually my post on FB talked about budgeting for VACATIONS and said that GoFundMes for SURGERIES (moving expenses, emergencies, etc) were great things. But that asking for money for expensive vacations TWO YEARS IN A ROW was a bit much. Which you guys are doing??? In fact I’ve signal boosted your surgery fund happily. And I gave tips about shit for Disney since I literally *just* got back from there. Don’t try to say I said you shouldn’t GoFundMe your surgery when I didn’t.

I specifically called out the fact that you guys are asking for expensive vacations two years in a row and suggested that you maybe hold off until next year on Disney if you can’t afford it and concentrate on your surgery this year.

I even said I wasn’t trying to hide who the fuck I was talking about. All of us know who I’m talking about. No I didn’t *tag* you guys. Do you want me to? I can?

Also, it’s super, super manipulative to come here and act like I said you could not all for money for your surgery when I specifically state that I think GoFundMes are great for that specifically, but that my beef is with the vacations two years in a row and that *yes* I think that’s selfish and that YOU KNOW I’ve signal boosted your surgery fund and that you know that people have given to your find directly because I signal boosted it because we had a whole conversation about “speaking of dabs”

So, quit trying to make me look like a monster because I suggested you wait a year and budget a little more for a vacation and said GoFundMes were great for surgery.

thelilnan:

FUCK lmao someone in my extended friend group posted a huge callout post for me on Facebook without naming names but essentially called me selfish and irresponsible for setting up GoFundMes for my New York Trip last year and my surgery this year???

Let’s talk about this shit, Head Ass. I know you’re talking about me.

So actually my post on FB talked about budgeting for VACATIONS and said that GoFundMes for SURGERIES (moving expenses, emergencies, etc) were great things. But that asking for money for expensive vacations TWO YEARS IN A ROW was a bit much. Which you guys are doing??? In fact I’ve signal boosted your surgery fund happily. And I gave tips about shit for Disney since I literally *just* got back from there. Don’t try to say I said you shouldn’t GoFundMe your surgery when I didn’t.

I specifically called out the fact that you guys are asking for expensive vacations two years in a row and suggested that you maybe hold off until next year on Disney if you can’t afford it and concentrate on your surgery this year.

I even said I wasn’t trying to hide who the fuck I was talking about. All of us know who I’m talking about. No I didn’t *tag* you guys. Do you want me to? I can?

June 13 2017

June 04 2017

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elletromil:

Hellllllllllloooo peeps!

I just woke up but I am doing this now, because I am sure I’ll forget if I don’t XD

So I’m elletromil, everyone calls me Elle and I have been in the fandom since february 28th 2015… Yeah basically I went to see the movie and the moment I came back home I was reading the few fics in the fandom at the time. (less then 10 pages on ao3 you all)

I am a multi-shipper as in I ship everyone with everyone, be it in monogamous relationships or polyamorous ones. Still my OTP in the fandom is definitely Hartwin. The only few times I can read fics where Harry and Eggsy aren’t together is if they have a great non-romantic relationship. OT3 is definitely Merhartwin.

I write (a lot) and I seriously have no chill about it. No seriously, someone will tag me in something not even to get a fic or I will see someone post about them wanting something and I will write it. Plus all the ideas I get on my own XD I am also always up for plot-bunnying/headcanoning with anyone who wants to. I mostly write fluff and always stories with a happy ending because I can’t stand it otherwise. I nearly never write smut, the highest I have ever went is an M rating and it happens like once a year, but if you have smut recs for me, I am very happy to read those XD

It is the first fandom I have really interacted with people even if I started to unlurk with the Hobbit and Teen Wolf. I met the best people here, some very dear friends even :D

Here’s where I will tag them (under the cut because I will be rambling some more)

Keep reading

June 03 2017

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textsfromthetailors:

(352): what the fuck is wrong with you 

(702): Do you want me to go chronologically or alphabetically?

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demonicsymphony:

aiwa-sensei:

“… you realise of course, now I’m going to have to kill you”

Just watch this and you’ll understand wth is going on in my head. Or not. 

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edgy-murphy:

i’m here for bisexual boys that have to put up with biphobia from their friends and family

i’m here for asexual boys that are faced with the “boys are hypersexual” stereotype every day

i’m here for gay boys that were abandoned by their friends because they thought that they were going to hit on them

i’m here for trans boys that get asked “where did my little girl go” by their parents

i’m here for pansexual boys who are told that their identities are invalid

I’m here for questioning boys that are terrified of their own feelings because they’ve been taught that being different is bad

i’m just here for the LGBT+ boys okay

May 31 2017

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ma-chi1993:

corpidicarta:

corpidicarta:

I just want to tell you a story. Will you listen?

You probably don’t know this woman: her name is Franca Viola. She was born in Alcamo, Sicily, in 1947, during a time where, see, things for women were deeply different. This is her when she was 17. 

She was 17 when, on the 26th of December, 1965, she was kidnapped by her former boyfriend, Filippo Melodia, the son of a local mobster, and a few of his friends: she had broken the engagement with him a couple of years prior, when she was 15 and he was 23, and he couldn’t accept it. He kept her segregated in a farmhouse for 8 days and raped her, before she was found and freed by the police.

At that time, the Italian law stood with her kidnapper and rapist, as it stated that if the rapist married his victim, then the crime was virtually erased, and, had the guilty part already been prosecuted and convicted, the trial and the sentence would cease. This kind of marriage was called “rehabilitating marriage,” as it was believed that the victim, and her family, had to fix the dishonour caused by the rape. 

Incredible, isn’t it? Not really. In an area where families still used to hang the sheet dirty with blood to their balcony after the first wedding night to prove the virginity of the woman to the entire town, the law and the public opinion still expected women to marry their abusers to mantain their honour. 

Franca refused to marry Melodia. Knowing that the entire town - and, later, the whole country - could turn its back at her, knowing that she was going to be mocked, frowned upon, and insulted, she denounced him. Her family, who, contrarily to many other families, stood with her and supported her choice, needed to be guarded at all times by a handful of policemen, having been threatened by Melodia and his family. Franca was assisted by a brilliant lawyer. The trial ended up being reported by Italy’s major newspapers, and Franca, the first woman - girl - to refuse rehabilitating marriage, quickly became an example of bravery for many, many other women.

In court, Melodia tried to turn the judge against her. He said she’d already hooked up with him when they were together. He tried to escape conviction.

He was convicted for kidnapping anyway, and justly. Eight years later, when he got out, he was shot dead by an unknown killer.

Despite earlier threats that she was dishonoured, and that she wasn’t going to find anyone willing to marry her, she married Giuseppe, a childhood friend, in 1968, who stated that he wasn’t afraid of any possible acts of revenge from Melodia. He allegedly said said, “I’d rather live ten years with you than a lifetime with another woman.”  About her dad, who supported her every step, Franca recently said, “My father Bernardo came [to get me] unshaven, with a week’s old beard: I could not shave if you were not there, he said. What do you want to do, Franca? I will not marry him. All right, you put your hand, I will put one hundred. This sentence, he said. I just want you to be happy, nothing else. He took me home and he did the great effort, not me. It was him who put up with those who no longer greeted him, his friends gone. The shame, the dishonour. His head up high. He wanted only what was good for me.”

When he heard about her wedding, even Pope Paul VI asked to meet her to congratulate her.

Her trial was the final push to erase the law about rehabilitating marriage and honour killings, which also allowed “mitigating circumstances” if the killer had acted upon jealousy or to restore his honour (for instance, if a husband walked in on his wife cheating on him, and killed both her and her lover). But that didn’t happen until 1981.

Rape was finally considered a “crime against the person,” instead of a crime “against the morals”, only in 1996. 

She still lives in Alcamo; she says that, sometimes, she still sees her kidnappers, and whilst she greets them, they lower her gaze in shame. Franca has never, not once, lowered her gaze, and that’s why she changed history. 

This is just a tiny post to remember how small acts of courage can change history and change the shape of a nation - and as a woman, an Italian, a Sicilian woman, I want to thank Franca for saying ‘no’ and - perhaps by chance - changing the history of Italy. 

Reblogging again for International Women’s Day, in celebration of the women who changed history. 

This is Franca Viola today, an elegant and gentle woman, now grandmother of a little girl. 

In 2014, on this day, she was honoured as Grande Ufficiale al merito della Repubblica italiana - Great official for merit of Italy - for her role in fighting the misoginyst mentality of those times, and contributed to re-think the approach towards rape and the role of women in Italian society. 

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kingsman-network:

New still of Kingsman: The Golden Circle [x]

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kingsman-network:

New still of Kingsman: The Golden Circle [x]

May 29 2017

ncc-seventeen-oh-fun:

Reblog if you can’t wait for Star Trek: Feminist Lesbian Edition.

May 28 2017

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naamahdarling:

veronica-rich:

brofligate:

I can’t believe this guy mansplained mansplaining.

Correctile dysfunction

OOOOOHHHHHH MY GOD OHHHH MY GOOOOODDDDD OH MY GODDD DOHHHH MFMFFAHL HQFIHLKH LAKH

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